There is a statistical certainty we rarely discuss at the altar. You are going to marry the wrong person. And so is everyone you know. That sentence probably landed somewhere uncomfortable — in the chest, maybe, or just behind the eyes. Good. That discomfort is the beginning of something more honest than most of what we've been told about love. Because the lie we carry into relationships isn't small. It's cinematic. It's beautiful. And it costs us decades. This is the lifecyc